Delhi’s Proust Questionnaire – Manika Dhama, Barakhamba

Delhi’s Proust Questionnaire – Manika Dhama, Barakhamba

Delhi’s Proust Questionnaire – Mayank Austen Soofi, Fresc Co

The Proustian self-introspection.

[By The Delhi Proustians]

The Proust Questionnaire represents a form of interview that owes its structure to answers given by French novelist Marcel Proust, the author of In Search of Lost Time, at two birthday parties that he attended at ages 13 and 20 in the late 19th century.

In 2013, The Delhi Proustians takes Les confidences de salon (Drawing room confessions) around the city to explore people’s lives, thoughts, values and experiences. This series would involve interviews across Delhi and will be conducted by writers Manika Dhama and Mayank Austen Soofi.

For the second instalment in the series Delhi’s Proust Questionnaire, Manika Dhama made confessions to Mayank Austen Soofi whom she met one busy afternoon between business appointments in Central Delhi’s Barakhamba.

Your favorite virtue or the principal aspect of your personality
Ability to stay calm amidst stormy situations, for the most part

Your favorite qualities in a man
An honest gaze and his ability to turn a phrase

Your favorite qualities in a woman
Bravado and delectable wit

Your chief characteristic
Tenacity

What do you appreciate the most in your friends?
Brutal honesty and infectious humor

Your main fault
(Usually) failed attempts to do too many things all at once

Your favorite occupation
Capturing countless travels in words and on camera

Your idea of happiness
A highly evolved state of being, unmarred by life’s trials

Your idea of misery or what would be your greatest misfortune?
Becoming a slave to negative emotions

If not yourself, who would you be?
A singing, guitar-playing version of myself, with better hair and superior writing skills

Where would you like to live?
New York. Or on Akbar Road in Delhi, say for instance, (politician) Meira Kumar’s current residence

Your favourite colour and flower
All colors. They’re perfect in some or the other way. All flowers are lovely too, though I’m not a big fan of roses

Your favorite bird
Anything that eats insects is good

Your favorite prose authors
Gabriel Garcia Marquez, PG Wodehouse, Virginia Woolf, Marcel Proust

Your favorite poets
Emily Dickinson, Bob Dylan and Eddie Vedder

Your favorite heroes in fiction
Sherlock Holmes

Your favorite heroines in fiction
Scarlett O’ Hara. She was a spoilt sassy little minx

Your favorite composers
I don’t have enough classical music exposure. Does Led Zeppelin and Eddie Vedder (Pearl Jam) count?

Your favorite painters
Edvard Munch

Your heroes/heroines in real life
Countless people around the world who’re creating value in others’ lives or fighting for change

What characters in history do you most dislike?
Hitler

Your heroines in World history
Rosa Parks

Your favorite food and drink
Coffee flavored anything

Your favorite names
Advay, Cassandra, Shylock

What do you hate the most?
The claims of control or superiority over another human being in the name of race, gender, class, caste etc

The military event you admire the most
All the wars that didn’t happen

The reform you admire the most
Reform that takes place in a human heart. It can move mountains

The natural talent you’d like to be gifted with
Musical talent – singer, songwriter, composer

How do you wish to die?
While napping in the porch on a winter afternoon in Delhi, preferably with a book of poetry resting on my belly

What is your present state of mind?
Fighting narcissism

Faults for which you have the most tolerance
Gluttony

Your motto in life
Celebrate the life you have today because this right here is the “good ol’ days”

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