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[Text and photos by Mayank Austen Soofi]
The Delhi Walla meets this woman at an apartment in Jamia Nagar, south Delhi. She is in a sharara, a pair of loose-pleated trousers usually worn by Muslim brides. Composed of floral designs in red and green, the sharara spreads around her legs in deep folds. The yellow kameez that descends to her knees is laced with embroideries depicting leaves, flowers and fruit. The head is covered with a dupatta of the same shade of yellow. The woman shows no jewelry. There is no one dressed like her.
Disclosing that she has been wearing the same clothes for three days, the woman says, “I’m marrying tomorrow. The sharara was sent by the boy’s family. I put it on before the haldi ceremony. I will change into another sharara only on the evening of my wedding. Until then I’m not allowed to even take a shower. That’s the tradition.”
Running her finger along the lace of her dupatta, she says, “My parents arranged the marriage. I have seen him only on Facebook.”
What will the woman look like after a decade?
As if reading my thoughts, she says, “I’m pursuing a degree in B.Ed. It has been agreed that I would not stop my education after the marriage. I would also not be required to wear the burqa. I will become a teacher in a college.”
Looking down at her sharara, she says, “This will be buried in my trunk.”
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oh so cute
awesome I like the spirit of this girl. She is beautiful, intelligent and very inspiring. Hsppy Married Life
Good heavens!? Breathless. Thank you. That young lady will never say, I am sure: Na kisi ki aankh ka noor hun…
I hope she will find love in this mariage. She looks quite scared, I can imagine. Good luck!
Quite absurd – the not chancing clothes and no shower concept. Unreasonable.
a picture of a truly empowered woman: sticking to traditions yet imposing her rights… hope she’ll find true happiness in this marriage..
Changing face of India and women empowerment … a study in contrast …
She is betrothed in an arranged marriage yet saw his pics on facebook …
Says it has been agreed I will continue to study and I will not wear the veil, how cute. Way to go my lil hero.
She looks like someone I know. Or maybe her mother is.